Always
- Use real, recent photos of yourself
- Be honest about who you are and what you're looking for
- Show up to dates you commit to
- Treat every match with respect, even if you're not interested
- Communicate clearly and kindly
Never
- Use someone else's photos or pretend to be someone you're not
- Send unsolicited explicit photos or messages
- Harass, threaten, or intimidate other members
- Use Chivalry to promote a business, OnlyFans, or other services
- Discriminate based on race, religion, gender, orientation, or disability
- Ghost dates you've already confirmed without canceling first
Consequences
Members who violate these guidelines may receive warnings, temporary suspensions, or permanent bans depending on the severity. Serious violations — including harassment, hate speech, or any threat to safety — result in immediate removal.
We do not offer refunds for accounts banned due to guideline violations.
Report a violation
See something that breaks these rules? Email safety [at] chivalry.date or use the in-app report button on any profile or message.