Putting dates
back into dating
Tired of endless swiping that leads nowhere? Chivalry is built around real dates — propose a plan, agree on the details, and actually meet in person.
Date confirmed!
Saturday at 7pm
Coffee at Frothy Monkey
New match!
You both liked each other
Kelly & Mark
Jenna & Tom
Sarah & Alex
Mia & Chris
Real dates, not small talk
"Kelly & Mark — first date"
"Jenna & Tom — coffee date"
"Sarah & Alex — brunch"
"Mia & Chris — buggy ride"
Real dates, not small talk
Dating the way
it should be
No games, no ghosting, no endless chat. Just real plans with real people near you.
Discover & match
Browse real profiles of real people near you. Mutual likes turn into matches.
Plan a real date
Propose a date idea, pick a place, agree on a time. It's all built into the app.
Meet in person
Show up, have a great time, and rate your date afterwards. Better matches follow.
Built for people who
want more
Every feature is designed to get you off the app and into the real world.
Date planning
Propose ideas, negotiate times, confirm plans — all within the app.
Real-time chat
Message your matches to work out the details before the big night.
Post-date ratings
Rate your dates to improve future matches. Only you see your ratings.
Verified profiles
ID verification so you know you're meeting a real person.
Location-aware
Find people near you. Set your distance range and discover locals.
Date ideas
Every profile has date ideas — see what they're into before you match.
One tap
to request a date
Confirmed!
Sunday, 5pm
Skip the small talk,
request a date
Every profile shows three real date ideas — dinner, coffee, drinks, whatever they're into. See something that sounds good? Tap to request it. No awkward openers, no weeks of texting.
See their date ideas upfront — every profile lists what they actually want to do
Request a date in seconds — pick the idea, propose a time, done
Track every date in one place — upcoming, pending, and past dates, all organized
People are actually
going on dates
Here's what our first members have to say about Chivalry.
“Finally a dating app that's actually about dating. I've been on three real dates in two weeks — more than I had all of last year on other apps.”
Emma M.
Nashville, TN
“The date-planning feature is genius. No more weeks of back-and-forth. You match, you propose a plan, you show up. That's it.”
Jordan R.
Austin, TX
“I love this app. It feels like the early 2010s when people actually met in person. No endless swiping, no ghosting, just real humans making plans.”
Sophie K.
Brooklyn, NY
4.8
Average rating
94%
Go on a real date
Zero
Endless swiping
Your next great date is waiting
Join Chivalry today and start meeting people who actually want to go on dates.